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Perfectionism is Holding You Back
How do you know if the drive for perfectionism is holding you back? The truth of the matter is…it usually does.
Perfectionism is often touted as something to be proud of, something to strive for. More often than not, perfectionism is holding you back from reaching your goals.
To be perfectly honest, I am guilty of this too.
It’s human nature, I think, to strive for something so lofty and out of reach as perfection. The tricky part of that is that I think a vast majority won’t even begin to try because it is so lofty. Why try if falling short is inevitable?
In thinking this way, they miss the point.
The joy is in the journey.
The idea of perfectionism is holding you back from exploring. It prevents you from learning and experiencing new things. It discourages one from even trying for fear of making mistakes. As if that were such a terrible thing.
There is no shame in making mistakes. There are however, lessons to be learned in each one. Those lessons are invaluable, not embarrassing. And they’re certainly not indicative of failure.
Failure only happens if you quit.
And who says a drawing or painting has to be perfect anyway? If slapping some…